Why do women leave men?

By: FunnyBoy Mood: General Date: 02/04/2007 07:17:12 Music: None

And we've all been in the situation, wonderingwhy she was leaving... and willing to do literallyANYTHING to get her to stay.

You met an incredible woman, and you really hitit off at the beginning. But the more time youspent with her, the less interested she became...but the MORE interested you became. You could feelthe balance of power shifting, but there wasnothing you could do about it. Eventually she juststopped seeing you, but she never explained why ina way that made any sense...

You were seeing a woman for several months,maybe even a year or so. Everything seemed fine.But then one day she came to you and said, "Idon't know how I feel anymore, and I just needsome time ALONE... some time to 'find myself'...it's not YOU, it's ME"... but, her time "alone"turned into her seeing some other guy that didn'ttreat her half as well as you did...You were in a serious long-term relationshipthat had lasted more than a couple of years, andyou were with the woman you thought you'd spendthe rest of your life with. Sure, you had yourproblems, but you knew that you'd always workthrough whatever came up, and she would stick byyour side forever. Out of nowhere, she startedacting strange... she started to become morecontrolling and angry... no matter how hard youtried to make her feel better and do nice things,it only got worse. They she dropped the bomb thatshe didn't love you anymore, and she was leaving.Or maybe she cheated on you, then told you as herway of breaking up...of course, there are a million variations ofthese basic situations, but I'll bet you canidentify with one of them.   I can identify with ALL of them. In fact, I'vebeen through each of them... some more than once.   And I'll tell you... I can remember the PAINand the DESPERATION I felt each time.   I mean, it SUCKED. I hated it.