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10-07-2008, 07:47 AM
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i like the reply from the brother above me...i wish it were that simple sis....wen i do wear it i feel like all eyes are on me....i cant stand them i feel sorry for her looks...plus its easier to walk around hijabless...
inshallah may allah guide me...that was pretty good what u wrote though....well done
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10-07-2008, 07:51 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by nagaad
Why Should I Wear The Hijaab ?
This is a good question and there is a beautiful answer! Allaah has commanded us with every action that is good for us and prohibited us from performing every action that is bad for us. Allah orders the Muslim woman to wear the hijaab when she steps out of the security of her home or when in the presence of strange men. So to wear the
hijaab is a source of great good for you - the Muslim woman - for many reasons. Among them:
1. You please Allaah. You are obeying the commands of your Lord when
you wear the hijaab and you can expect great rewards in return.
2. It is Allaah's protection of your natural beauty. You are too
precious to be "on display" for each man to see.
3. It is Allaah's preservation of your chastity.
4. Allaah purifies your heart and mind through the hijaab.
5. Allaah beautifies your inner and outer countenance with hijaab.
Outwardly your hijaab reflects innocence, purity, modesty, shyness,
serenity, contentment and obedience to your Lord. Inwardly you
cultivate the same.
6. Allaah defines your femininity through the hijaab. You are a woman
who respects her womanhood. Allaah wants you to be respected by
others, and for you to respect yourself.
7. Allaah raises your dignity through the hijaab. When a strange man
looks at you, he respects you because he sees that you respect
yourself.
8. Allaah protects your honour 100% through your hijaab. Men do not
gaze at you in a sensual way, they do not approach you in a sensual
way, and neither do they speak to you in a sensual way. Rather, a man
holds you in high esteem and that is just by one glance at you!
9. Allaah gives you nobility through the hijaab. You are noble not
degraded because you covered not naked.
10. Allaah demonstrates your equality as a Muslim woman through the
hijaab. Your Lord bestows upon you equal worth as your male
counterpart, and gives you a host of beautiful rights and liberties.
You express your acceptance of these unique rights by putting on the
hijaab.
11. Allaah defines your role as a Muslim woman through the hijaab.
You are a someone with important duties. You are a reflection of a
woman of action not idle pursuits. You display your sense of
direction and purpose through your hijaab. You are someone that
people take seriously.
12. Allaah expresses your independence through the hijaab. You are
stating clearly that you are an obedient servant of the Greatest
Master. You will obey no one else and follow no other way. You are
not a slave to any man, nor a slave to any nation. You are free and
independent from all man-made systems.
13. Allaah gives you the freedom of movement and expression through
the hijaab. You are able to move about and communicate without fear
of harassment. Your hijaab gives you a unique confidence.
14. Allaah wants others to treat you - a Muslim woman - with
kindness. And the hijaab brings about the best treatment of men
towards you.
15. Allaah wants your beauty to be preserved and saved for just one
man to enjoy - your husband.
16. Allaah helps you to enjoy a successful marriage through wearing
hijaab. Because you reserve your beauty for one man alone, your
husband's love for you increases, he cherishes you more, he respects
you more and he honours you more. So your hijaab contributes to a
successful and lasting marriage relationship.
17. Allaah brings about peace and stability in the society through
the hijaab! Yes this is true! Men do not cause corruption by forming
illegal relationships because you - the Muslim woman - calm their
passions. When a man looks at you, he feels at ease, not tempted to
fornicate.
So a Muslim woman in hijaab is dignified, not dishonoured, noble, not
degraded, liberated, not subjugated, purified, not sullied,
independent, not a slave, protected, not exposed, respected, not
laughed at, confident, not insecure, obedient, not a sinner, a
guarded pearl, not a prostitute.
Dear Muslim sister! Come towards the gates of Paradise with us!
Fulfill your duties towards Allaah, put on your adornment - put on
your hijaab, and race towards Jannah (Paradise) by doing all good
actions. You should agree by now that wearing hijaab is extremely
beneficial - it must be - because Allaah only commands what is good.
and believe me dear sister, it is good to obey the commands of your
Lord.
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Jazakhal Kheir Sister. For all the muslim sisters in here she could not have put in a nice and simpler way for all of us to change our mind if we had not started wearing one
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10-07-2008, 08:47 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Hot-Shot
when i see two beautyful girls...........one is covered da otha is not.........automatically i respect da covered one.............but den a covered muslim grl should never hate on or discriminate against the one who is not wearin a hijaab becouse at da end of da day only allah knoes why u are wearin hijaab urself...........some grls wear hijaab becouse of der perants or otha reasons..........only a small % wear it becouse of allah......and u should wear hijaab becouse allah says so not coz ur mother forced u to
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Yeap that is ture many grls wear hijaab becouse of der perants ........... 
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10-07-2008, 09:23 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by nagaad
Why Should I Wear The Hijaab ?
This is a good question and there is a beautiful answer! Allaah has commanded us with every action that is good for us and prohibited us from performing every action that is bad for us. Allah orders the Muslim woman to wear the hijaab when she steps out of the security of her home or when in the presence of strange men. So to wear the
hijaab is a source of great good for you - the Muslim woman - for many reasons. Among them:
1. You please Allaah. You are obeying the commands of your Lord when
you wear the hijaab and you can expect great rewards in return.
2. It is Allaah's protection of your natural beauty. You are too
precious to be "on display" for each man to see.
3. It is Allaah's preservation of your chastity.
4. Allaah purifies your heart and mind through the hijaab.
5. Allaah beautifies your inner and outer countenance with hijaab.
Outwardly your hijaab reflects innocence, purity, modesty, shyness,
serenity, contentment and obedience to your Lord. Inwardly you
cultivate the same.
6. Allaah defines your femininity through the hijaab. You are a woman
who respects her womanhood. Allaah wants you to be respected by
others, and for you to respect yourself.
7. Allaah raises your dignity through the hijaab. When a strange man
looks at you, he respects you because he sees that you respect
yourself.
8. Allaah protects your honour 100% through your hijaab. Men do not
gaze at you in a sensual way, they do not approach you in a sensual
way, and neither do they speak to you in a sensual way. Rather, a man
holds you in high esteem and that is just by one glance at you!
9. Allaah gives you nobility through the hijaab. You are noble not
degraded because you covered not naked.
10. Allaah demonstrates your equality as a Muslim woman through the
hijaab. Your Lord bestows upon you equal worth as your male
counterpart, and gives you a host of beautiful rights and liberties.
You express your acceptance of these unique rights by putting on the
hijaab.
11. Allaah defines your role as a Muslim woman through the hijaab.
You are a someone with important duties. You are a reflection of a
woman of action not idle pursuits. You display your sense of
direction and purpose through your hijaab. You are someone that
people take seriously.
12. Allaah expresses your independence through the hijaab. You are
stating clearly that you are an obedient servant of the Greatest
Master. You will obey no one else and follow no other way. You are
not a slave to any man, nor a slave to any nation. You are free and
independent from all man-made systems.
13. Allaah gives you the freedom of movement and expression through
the hijaab. You are able to move about and communicate without fear
of harassment. Your hijaab gives you a unique confidence.
14. Allaah wants others to treat you - a Muslim woman - with
kindness. And the hijaab brings about the best treatment of men
towards you.
15. Allaah wants your beauty to be preserved and saved for just one
man to enjoy - your husband.
16. Allaah helps you to enjoy a successful marriage through wearing
hijaab. Because you reserve your beauty for one man alone, your
husband's love for you increases, he cherishes you more, he respects
you more and he honours you more. So your hijaab contributes to a
successful and lasting marriage relationship.
17. Allaah brings about peace and stability in the society through
the hijaab! Yes this is true! Men do not cause corruption by forming
illegal relationships because you - the Muslim woman - calm their
passions. When a man looks at you, he feels at ease, not tempted to
fornicate.
So a Muslim woman in hijaab is dignified, not dishonoured, noble, not
degraded, liberated, not subjugated, purified, not sullied,
independent, not a slave, protected, not exposed, respected, not
laughed at, confident, not insecure, obedient, not a sinner, a
guarded pearl, not a prostitute.
Dear Muslim sister! Come towards the gates of Paradise with us!
Fulfill your duties towards Allaah, put on your adornment - put on
your hijaab, and race towards Jannah (Paradise) by doing all good
actions. You should agree by now that wearing hijaab is extremely
beneficial - it must be - because Allaah only commands what is good.
and believe me dear sister, it is good to obey the commands of your
Lord.
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Sister thank you for such a thoughtful post!...'"ilaahay ha i so hadeeyo"lol.. 
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10-07-2008, 10:39 AM
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Join Date: Oct 2008
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Hot-Shot
when i see two beautyful girls...........one is covered da otha is not.........automatically i respect da covered one.............but den a covered muslim grl should never hate on or discriminate against the one who is not wearin a hijaab becouse at da end of da day only allah knoes why u are wearin hijaab urself...........some grls wear hijaab becouse of der perants or otha reasons..........only a small % wear it becouse of allah......and u should wear hijaab becouse allah says so not coz ur mother forced u to
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And you would know that because you know
what's exactly in their hearts (niyat) right? 
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10-07-2008, 10:55 AM
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Bismilahi rahmani raheem
Asalamu aleikum warahamtulah wabarakat
indeed great naseexa and something to reflect upon.
masha'Allah jazakiiAllah ukhtee azeeza
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10-08-2008, 04:23 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by go_go-grl
Sister thank you for such a thoughtful post!...'"ilaahay ha i so hadeeyo"lol.. 
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Dear Sister,
May Allah bless and guide you
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10-08-2008, 12:25 PM
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AWWW.. THAT NICE JASKALLAH........ <<< LOOOKIN FOWARD
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