Hey Y'all wzuuup. Sagal girl in here. How Y'all doing. goo? aight
well. Sagaleey is in this dillema. well
I'm with this guy. he's very nice and everthing and I love him. Yes I do. i said the magic word. well. we planned to get married August next year. Our parents know about us. and he even come to my house and asked my parents about me. We got a apparment, and moving there soon, Inshallah. We loved each other and everything was going smooth with us, until we had a big fight last monday. well. the fight wasnt really that seriouse. but we were just annoyed and was kinda tired each othe. well, yesterday while I was at uni he called me and asked me if i he could come food to me, and I said i wasnt hungry. well. to make this short. he picked me up from uni to home, and I haven't heard from him since yesterday. I wrot him a message saying that I love him and all he replyed with was, Thnxxz. before he used to replay back that he loves me even more and bla bla. he used to send me goodnight/morning messages , but doesnt anymore, and he doesnt call me tht much. even ma mom noticed that soemthing is wrong with us. and I cant tell her anything. but i dont know whats with us. is he dumping me?. should I call him and ask whats wrong with him, og should I just wait, pretend like nothing is wrong with us and wait until uu bacda iska fuuraya.
your help is needed here.
and Plss. I dont need no nacnac
SISTER FIRST OF ALL U HAVE COOL NAME AND I HEARD GUYS ACT LIKE THAT SOMETIMES THE BEST WAY IS TELL HIM THE TRUTH HOW U FEEL AND WATZ WRONG WITH HIM
SO BE HONEST IS THE KEY TO THE GOOD LIFE SO
CALL HIM TELL HIM TO MEET YOU IN NICE PLACE AND TALK ABOUT IT DONT CALL SO ADVICE 4RM SAMY
tell him that he needs to stop the calacal and if he think he can just ignore you everytime y'all have a fight then he's not ready for a relationshpi. I mean one or two days of having your own space when u upset wit sumbody is caadi lakiin long enough to make you wonder is just not right! what he think he can make u wait forever?
pishposh he needs to step it up and be a man.
lakiin imma be real for the sake of allah i hope he does. y'all shud fix up! if you two really 'love' each other, you wouldn't want him getting dembi just for spending time wit u. U'd either wait to hang out till you get married (if u aint ready yet) OR you would get married and help save him some dembi from the hell fire. This western version of love makes no sense to me.
Last edited by Sharvella : 11-20-2008 at 03:30 PM.
thre is absolutly nothing wrong with calling a guy
that you want to spend the rest of your life with
if you cant stand eachother
or admit to your wrongs now
how do you plan to do that for ever?
call him ask to meet him
ask him whats up
im sure its not serious and hes just sulking
but if you did do something wrong to him
then its your place to apologise
guys aint tht hard 2 plz
jus smile at him
(btw u used 2 mke fun of every1 tht mkes dese sorts of threads u joined de group?)
lolz
salaam sis
Samira, thnxxxz baby. but the thing is that we dont meet that usual. we just talk on the phone(in order of avoiding fitnah etc)....well, I really don't like to call when someone is tripping. I like him to call me and apoligize me. I know am snobbish.
well, sharvella, well thnxxxz for ur honest advice sister. I appreciate it. dnt u know the feeling tht something is wrong , and you dont know excatly what and how it happened.
true muslimah..looool....this is seriouse sister. ít´s not compared to all the calacal. ths is the man am getting married to.
Samira, thnxxxz baby. but the thing is that we dont meet that usual. we just talk on the phone(in order of avoiding fitnah etc)....well, I really don't like to call when someone is tripping. I like him to call me and apoligize me. I know am snobbish.
well, sharvella, well thnxxxz for ur honest advice sister. I appreciate it. dnt u know the feeling tht something is wrong , and you dont know excatly what and how it happened.
true muslimah..looool....this is seriouse sister. ít´s not compared to all the calacal. ths is the man am getting married to.
lool i knw sis inshallah kheyr
bt either way
jus so u knw
itll be HIS LOSS
actin lyk a 3 yr old girl
tsk tsk
Is he about to dump me?
Today
for the sake of allah i hope he does. y'all shud fix up! if you two really 'love' each other, you wouldn't want him getting dembi just for spending time wit u. U'd either wait to hang out till you get married (if u aint ready yet) OR you would get married and help save him some dembi from the hell fire. This western version of love makes no sense to me.
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