Is he about to dump me? - Page 2

Pearlz · #11 11-20-2008, 03:44 PM

why think about what's wrong with him so long and bust your brain.....just call him and see what's wag1 ...

sexyshorty · #12 11-20-2008, 03:45 PM

ooh ooh i dont like the sound of that..i guess it was cool when ya'all started out. listen to this song by tamia its called questions

I noticed you ain't been around lately
I recognize there is a sudden change
I notice you haven't been calling me
I'm starting to see, that things are not the same
Lately I have been reaching out to you
Boy you haven't been returning my calls
And even when I say, I love you
I notice there has been a slight pause

[Chorus]
Can you tell me what do you think it could be.
Headache, tired, or cheating on me?
I'm tired of all this up and down mystery
Please answer questions from one, two, three.
Do you love me? Lost Interest? Is he cheatin'?
ooooohh ladies help me out.
Do you love me? Lost Interest? Is he cheatin'?
Said I'm tired of all these ups and downs
Do you love me? Lost Interest? Is he cheatin'?
Fellas tell me what you're thinking
Do you love me? Lost interest? Is he cheatin'?
Here's the reason why I ask these things....

I was giving him the best of me
But my best stopped being good enough
I'm telling you I will do anything
Talk about a woman who loves tough
and now he's coming home real, real late
I let him know its starting to bother me
He never once even touched his plate
and no response he just went to sleep.

[Chorus]
Can you tell me what do you think it could be.
Headache, tired, or cheating on me?
I'm tired of all this up and down mystery
So please answer questions one, two, three.
Do you love me? Lost Interest? Is he cheatin'?
ooooohh ladies help me out.
Do you love me? Lost Interest? Is he cheatin'?
Said I'm tired of all these ups and downs
Do you love me? Lost Interest? Is he cheatin'?
Fellas tell me what you're thinking...yeah
Do you love me? Lost interest? Is he cheatin'?
Here's the reason why I ask these things....

Used to take me shopping...all the time
Used to go club hoppin'...all the time
Where you were I would be...all the time
Now all you do is leave me (BEHIND BOY)
Used to be your best friend, (REMEMBER )
We were close like cousins (REMEMBER)
Used to give me lovin' (AND NOW...)
Now all you're doing is trippin' (YEAAAHH...LADIES WHAT DO YOU THINK?...)

[Chorus]
Please tell me what do you think it could be.
Headache, tired, or cheating on me?
Said I'm tired of all this up and down mystery
Please answer questions from one, two, three.
Do you love me? Lost Interest? Is he cheatin'?
ooooohh ladies help me out.
Do you love me? Lost Interest? Is he cheatin'?
Said I'm tired of all these ups and downs
Do you love me? Lost Interset? Is he cheatin'?
Fellas tell me what you're thinking
Do you love me? Lost interset? Is he cheatin'?
Here's the reason why I ask these things....

#13 11-20-2008, 03:47 PM

clearly he is not puttin a value on u, Meaning, he dosn't care if he loses u or not. Well i just think this man is not worth living with rest of life, since he dosn't have ballz enough to confront the problems, but instead he hides from them. Well u shouldn't call him, ur worth much more.... Look what he made u do, he made u go public on "SILIFE" over some silly fight

ShiftaKing · #14 11-20-2008, 03:51 PM

There is something very wrong with your relationship.

If you can not communicate like two mature adults, then you have no business marrying each other.

In marriage, you will have lots of disagreements and unless you learn to talk about whats bothering you, your marriage will end in failure.

You also have to know what battles to pick and which to ignore.

_Kaneeco_ · #15 11-20-2008, 03:53 PM

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Originally Posted by ShiftaKing

There is something very wrong with your relationship.

If you can not communicate like two mature adults, then you have no business marrying each other.

In marriage, you will have lots of disagreements and unless you learn to talk about whats bothering you, your marriage will end in failure.

You also have to know what battles to pick and which to ignore.

I second that. You need to talk, sooner rather then later.

SweetSagal · #16 11-20-2008, 04:02 PM

Mashallah, You´re guys really opened my eyes. He doesnt value on me and he doesnt deserves me. Lots of better fellas after me. I will tell him whats up. and if he can't tell whatz up. Im move on with my life. I hate it

ShiftaKing · #17 11-20-2008, 04:06 PM

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Originally Posted by SweetSagal

Mashallah, You´re guys really opened my eyes. He doesnt value on me and he doesnt deserves me. Lots of better fellas after me. I will tell him whats up. and if he can't tell whatz up. Im move on with my life. I hate it

Sagal,

How old are you ?

How did you know that he was the "ONE" ?

SweetSagal · #18 11-20-2008, 04:09 PM

well. Im old enough Im 22, and I thought he was the one until a week ago. he always valued and respected me. he appreciated me and beside he´s just everything i was looking for a good. plss he´s religiouse and came from a religiouse and good family too.....everything with him was just nice and smooth. thats why i fell for him. but Idont know anymore because hes not the same

_Kaneeco_ · #19 11-20-2008, 04:12 PM

Sagaleey, i dont think you should be making any rash decisions. Just talk to him sis, then see how you feel. He cant be all bad if you fell for him so hard.

ShiftaKing · #20 11-20-2008, 04:13 PM

Well, let me give you some advice on men.

"When a man meets a woman, he hopes she never changes, When a woman meets a man, she hopes he changes."

This guy may be feeling pressured and cornered into marriage. I suggest you give him a break. Let him think it through. He may not want to go through it but doesn't have the guts to let you know.