Never get married

[ShiftaKing]

Unless you meet these requirements:

1. Can take care of yourself - If you are dependent on someone, marriage is a bad idea.

2. Got no job - Already too many people on welfare ....

3. Dated the person for at least 1 year - If you haven't, don't do it. If someone recommends someone to you, don't buy the hype and marry them

4. GET an STD TEST - Too many nasty diseases out there

5. Responsible - If you are irresponsible, marriage won't make you responsible.



Oh, yeah, don't have any kids for the first 2 years just incase you divorce.

[SweetSagal]

thats inrealistic and western ideology I thought u were smart when u were advicing me in my thread., but Im not agree with u with this.
firstly dating is haram, and if u mean by knowing someone more than a year, to get to know the person. well, lemme dissapoint u and say that is not possible. because the thrue of the two partner comes out with they share a one bad, and beside. we´re muslims and not allowed sex before marriage. so no one can hold until they´re independe...(meaning done their eduction) unless they do some haram things

[Negative_Fetus]

One more thing..dont get married just to get laid<---This goes to all horny youngsters

[ShiftaKing]

Sagal,

So how would u get to know someone unless you date them ?

[_Kaneeco_]

Im going to add; unless your getting something in return dont bother.

[SweetSagal]

fetus lool...who u reffering too. somalidu waay kivirtay. Yáll used to get married very early bac home, why Yáll getting all westernized now.....Caajib. I have other ajnabi friends and they´re marrie while doing their degrees. bacda iska wada fuura. and get marrid. therés baraakat n marriage.
Well, shifta. Im muslim girl with dignity. I dont do dating thing. He opproached me. contact me and asked me if he could coem to our home. he did and he talk little while. and after couple times coming to my house and talking. we decised to get married

[ShiftaKing]

Kaneeco


Well put. Marriage is all about give and take.

Negative Fetus,

LOL .... Thats a tad drastic innit ?

[ShiftaKing]

Originally Posted by SweetSagal

fetus lool...who u reffering too. somalidu waay kivirtay. Yáll used to get married very early bac home, why Yáll getting all westernized now.....Caajib. I have other ajnabi friends and they´re marrie while doing their degrees. bacda iska wada fuura. and get marrid. therés baraakat n marriage.
Well, shifta. Im muslim girl with dignity. I dont do dating thing. He opproached me. contact me and asked me if he could coem to our home. he did and he talk little while. and after couple times coming to my house and talking. we decised to get married

Wow,

You are one brave woman, Sagal....

[2rue_muslimah]

Originally Posted by SweetSagal

thats inrealistic and western ideology I thought u were smart when u were advicing me in my thread., but Im not agree with u with this.
firstly dating is haram, and if u mean by knowing someone more than a year, to get to know the person. well, lemme dissapoint u and say that is not possible. because the thrue of the two partner comes out with they share a one bad, and beside. we´re muslims and not allowed sex before marriage. so no one can hold until they´re independe...(meaning done their eduction) unless they do some haram things

i disagree tht u cant hold until ur dne studying
some of us arent tht horny

[Negative_Fetus]

It aint...you know the best protection against all these diseases that are out there...its not to get tested "Which is good idea if you getting married" but to be abstinence.