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Old 10-02-2008, 07:54 AM
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I am bored at Uni so i started looking at some topics that some sisters made here,

He hasnt called me why?

I cant move on and so on..

I love him..

You need to realise that you dont need some next guy to raise your self esteem and if a guy ever loved you he would respect you too much to even mess around.

Some men are looking for miss right now rather than miss right, and i am sure you are decent enough to want someone who will be there for life.

I am sure everyone wants to marry a god fearing man, well do you think such man would link you..date you..kiss bla bla bla...err nah, so dont be fooled!

Your too good to be treated like crap Allah swt has blessed you already as you are born into the right religious, a muslim woman is so precious dont let anyone tell you otherwise.
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Old 10-06-2008, 02:36 AM
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Well done Sister! This is by far one of the most compelling threads on Somalilife to date. I like that you took the initiative to advice and enlighten these sisters. Most of these girls are either 16 or a little over 16, and under the impression that having a man in their life makes it all that more interesting. The opposite sex is often used as an instrument to make one feel good about him or herself. A girl's beauty and self worth is linked to whether or not Farax from McDonalds finds them attractive.The society we live in is infamous for promoting the wrong message and behavior when it comes to relationships. Young girls are falling in love with the message that having a boyfriend makes you desirable and attractive. As a result of this, they end up biting off more than they can chew with the crack-head next door. These girls have to realize their beauty and sense of worth stems from their uniqueness, and not from Mr. you'll-do.

My only advice for the sisters is to be defined by who you are and what you know, not who you know.
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Old 10-06-2008, 03:00 AM
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thnks for sharing sis
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Old 11-20-2008, 07:17 AM
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couldnt of said it better marshallah sis..
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Old 11-20-2008, 07:23 AM
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Yep, yep. Preach on sister!
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Old 11-20-2008, 03:58 PM
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Very good post.

Any woman who depends on a man for self esteem & worth has issues and is looking to get played.
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Old 11-20-2008, 04:31 PM
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mashallah wonderfully put my sister
walahi
cudnt hve said it better
YA'LL LISTEN
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Old 11-20-2008, 04:36 PM
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somalis always look things negatively. I think it´s good way of emptying out whats bothering one. Not everything that u can disuss with your friends or family. sometimes it´s good to discuss things with people u dont know. there´s waythere´s millions of secret pyschologist, consolist etc..........
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Old 11-20-2008, 04:37 PM
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Originally Posted by SweetSagal View Post
somalis always look things negatively. I think it´s good way of emptying out whats bothering one. Not everything that u can disuss with your friends or family. sometimes it´s good to discuss things with people u dont know. there´s waythere´s millions of secret pyschologist, consolist etc..........
all the sister said was not to depend on a guy
for ur self worth
not do not share anything with us
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Old 11-20-2008, 04:37 PM
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Well, it's so rowng to generalize things... yall should stop think so narrow minded, only because 1 or 2 sisters have deluded minds dosn't mean that everyone that makes posts has it. Sometimes it feels nice 2 hear someones else opinion on things, and maybe they find their answers here.
Just stop putting our moral rules.. this is a forum, and asking questions is the main reason this forum is up and running.

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