Iam important. So are other people, especially if
they are in trouble. I have a tender heart, but I
know how to establish and keep personal
boundaries. I'm empathetic and compassionate, but
i also believe that it's best if people solve
their own problems and learn to take care of
themselves, if they are able.I'm deeply moved by
the needs of others, but i know that if you don't
take good care of yourself, I'll wind up being of
no use to anyone. So Mine, is a thoughtful
compassion. I strive to be fair and sensible,
taking care of others while also taking care of
myself.When someone really is in trouble, I like
to collaborate with them toward a solution; they
do their part, i do mine's. I consider carefully,
and respond in a sensible way; they do their part,
and together we move through the difficulty. I
seldom act impulsively; rather, when a problem
arises, I take my time to think through the
situation. This contemplative quality usually
means that I'll arrive at a diplomatic solution,
one that's fair for the other person and also fair
to me. It's frequently a win/win situation.
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