What i never understand is why some people out there have low self-esteem. Be proud of how you look like, who you are, and the way you present yourself. Just be YOU! cos thats all you need to do and stop feeling so damn blue. How can you think so badly of yourself. If you don't like your weight then stop moaning and go do something about it. If you think your a 'bad-person.' Then change the things you don't like about yourself. For example if you percieve yourself as a selfish person. Then give money to charity/go do something for someone. Like buy a present for your friends or your sister. Go tell someone that you appreciate them. If you think you're too skinny then go eat fish& chips that will put weight on alright . Low self-esteem will eventually lead to depression. And we wouldn't want that now would we.? So go out there and make yourself happy. Think happy thoughts, when was the last time you were at your happiest moment and said ''this is the happiest day of my life.'' Well go and try and repeat that day whether it was visiting family etc. Stop spending time alone! People do love you, you know! go spend time with them.
When was the last time you gave yourself 'a treat?' well go out there and buy yourself something nice love. Make yourself look good. Perhaps the colour of your clothes doesn't suit you. Try darker colours or Brighter colours. And last of all smile a bit more!
Asalamu alaykum sister and bro's, fish and chips.....
I know its not easy to forgive people but sometimes its best if we just learn to let it go. So go ahead and learn how to let it go. Just remember that life is short and sometimes its just not worth holding a grudge. You know it and i know it (that letting it go you will feel so much better ofcourse.) its like when you really need to pee (i know you know the pain of holding it in) so why carry all that pain with you? when you can go aahhhhhhhhhhhhhha and feel relieved. so go ahead and piss (sorry got caught up in the moment) i meant go ahead and feel relief. (i was never good at giving good examples.) Also by letting it go you will feel a much better person. i mean how can you not feel that? by forgiving someone you are bigger and better person. Unless they forgive you first then all you can do is accept it and be the second better person Exactly i thought so you dont want to be second-best do you? then go ahead and forgive that 'person' RIGHT NOW!!!!!!
. Low self-esteem will eventually lead to depression. And we wouldn't want that now would we.? So go out there and make yourself happy. Think happy thoughts, when was the last time you were at your happiest moment and said ''this is the happiest day of my life.'' Well go and try and repeat that day whether it was visiting family etc. Stop spending time alone! People do love you, you know! go spend time with them. 